New Era An open letter from David and Madison to MAFs couples fans…
We hope this letter finds you well. As the latest season of Married at First Sight (MAFS) unfolds, we want to take a moment to connect with you, the loyal and passionate viewers, directly. This letter is our attempt to share our side of the story — an honest reflection on the journey we’ve been through so far and the emotions behind the decisions we’ve made.
When we both started this journey, we came into the experiment with open hearts and minds, ready to embrace the process and find true love. For both of us, the journey has been anything but easy, but it has also been transformative. We are aware that many of you are invested in the outcomes of our marriages and the relationships that have formed along the way, so we believe it’s time to share our truth.
David’s Perspective:
From the very beginning, I came into this experience with a clear intention: to find a deep and lasting connection with my wife. I believed in the process and was hopeful about finding someone I could grow with. Unfortunately, despite the initial optimism, my marriage with Michelle faced numerous hurdles. Our emotional and physical intimacy was a constant struggle, and over time, I realized that we simply weren’t the right match for each other.
As the season progressed, I began to lean on the support system of my fellow participants, and this is where Madison and I started to form a genuine connection. Our conversations, our shared experiences, and our mutual understanding of the challenges within the experiment created a space where we could both be vulnerable. This connection was never planned, but it grew naturally, and it was something I felt was worth exploring.
When I opened up to Madison about my feelings, I knew it wouldn’t be easy. I also knew that it would affect others — especially my wife, Michelle. I want to acknowledge that this was a difficult and painful moment for everyone involved, and we deeply regret the hurt that was caused.
Madison’s Perspective:
Like David, I entered the MAFS experiment with high hopes. I wanted to meet someone I could build a life with, someone who shared my values and vision for the future. But my marriage to Allen quickly revealed that the connection we had wasn’t as strong as we had hoped. While Allen and I tried to make things work, the emotional distance between us grew, and it became clear that we weren’t on the same page.
It was during this period of disconnection that David and I began to lean on each other. Our conversations went from casual chats to something much deeper. It wasn’t an intentional decision to explore a relationship outside of our marriages, but rather an organic process of supporting each other through the struggles we were both facing. Over time, I found myself developing feelings for David, feelings that were difficult to ignore.
I understand that our actions have drawn attention and, for some, disappointment. I never intended to hurt anyone, but I also believe that the connection I shared with David was real, and it was something I couldn’t deny. This wasn’t about trying to hurt our spouses — it was about finding something that felt authentic to me in a time of deep confusion.
Acknowledging the Impact:
We want to be clear: we both acknowledge the hurt that our actions have caused. To Michelle, Allen, and all those who have been affected by our choices, we are truly sorry for the pain we have contributed to. Relationships are complicated, and sometimes, no matter how much effort you put in, things don’t work out as planned. That doesn’t mean we don’t care about the people we’ve been involved with — it simply means that we’ve learned that sometimes, life takes unexpected turns.
To the fans who have been supporting us, we thank you. Your messages of support and understanding have meant the world to us. We also recognize that there are those who feel disappointed by our actions, and we hear you. We take full responsibility for the choices we’ve made, and we are committed to moving forward with honesty and integrity.
Looking Ahead:
As we continue our journey, we want to reassure you that we are both committed to learning from this experience. Whether or not we find lasting love with each other, we are using this time to grow, reflect, and work on ourselves. We want to be better partners, better individuals, and ultimately, better people.
We know that this season of MAFS has been filled with intense moments, and we truly appreciate all of you for sticking with us through the highs and lows. This journey isn’t over, and we are excited to see where it will take us — and we hope that you’ll continue to support us, regardless of what the future holds.
Thank you for your understanding and for being part of this incredible experience with us. We will continue to be transparent and honest, and we look forward to what’s ahead.
With sincerity and appreciation,
David and Madison